Beauty

We don’t have any insecurities or fears.

At every stage of my adult life, I have probably felt insecure about some superficial features. I’m sure that many women have experienced similar feelings of self-consciousness. The closer I get to 30, the more comfortable I feel in my skin. My appearance is a reflection of how I am feeling. It’s a reflection of your inner self. Perhaps on a particular day, my internal self is feeling defeated, stressed, anxious, or depressed. I put on a brave front and try to interact with the rest. Does the internal being deserve that it be judged, queried, or ridiculed because of what is external? No, of course not!

I let my hair and nail care be done according to how I feel. I wear what is most comfortable and looks good on me. Following trends is not on my list. Every once in a while, I feel judged both by women and myself. Both sides are silly, and it’s physically and mentally uncomfortable to be on the receiving side.

As a GROWN WOMAN, mother, and wife, I cannot understand why I have been asked so many questions in my life, such as “Why do you wear that shirt?” or “Why did you style your hair like that?” The attention is not as bothersome to me as the audacity in the question. It implies that you should have a good reason for asking, “why?” Why on earth would I have to do this? Why do they think that’s their right?

The question likely stems from their desire for attention, affirmation, and belonging. I know that we all have these needs, but they are often based on our maturity level.

As a GROWN WOMAN, mother, and wife, I cannot understand why I have been asked so many questions in my life, such as “Why do you wear that shirt?” or “Why did you style your hair like that?” The attention is not as bothersome to me as the audacity in the question. It implies that you should have a good reason for asking “why.” Why on earth would I have to do this? Why do they think that’s their right?

The question likely stems from their desire for attention, affirmation, and belonging. I know that we all have these needs, but they are often based on our maturity level.

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